Hey! Mikel here and feeling almosy human again!
I still have great snot, but feel that I'm able to 'cope' with Sarah and not go out of my mind. Now I think I know why our tour guides had some kind of activity each day, then lunch, then nap, then free time, then dinner. I am going to try to do the same thing each day.
Let me tell you, the crib tent is awesome! THANKS MICHELLE! It is actually a little bit smaller than the crib so that even when Sarah 'thrashes' it a bit, she doesn't 'bonk' it - she bounces! The first night she only cried about 30 minutes, woke up at about 5:30 - when I put her in bed with me until 7:30. Next night, 20 minutes. If she wakes up in the middle of the night I let her cry it out. Last night - 10 minutes! I put her down about 8 - 8:30 and she gets up around 7 - 7:30.
Nap time is different. I put her in it the other day and she cried for an hour and 15. So today I tried something different. I figure they nap on the floor in day care, so when she looked like she was getting tired (that was easy - so was I!) we went to her room and I layed down with a pillow and blanket and closed my eyes. I let her play next to me, and asked her to 'shh' when she was too loud. I don't have a changing table, just the pad. I do most stuff on the floor any way. I put the pad next to me and would pat it every once in a while and asked her to lay down. She would, she'd play with the blanket, get up, get a toy, lay back down, and after about 15 minutes she was out. Thanks for the inspiration, Granny!
Well - it's been a hour and she just got up. She was crying but when I went in I 'lied' and told her I was just on the potty. She bought it (unlike her antibiotics laced with syrup)
Now she is still sleepy but in my lap as I write this.
I am sticking with the cry-it-out method. It's either her or me! If I don't sleep then I am no good to be driving her around and what not during the day.
Today is the second day with just the two of us (I was so sick still on the first) and I actually think I might be able to do this! Hooray!
She is getting along great with Shep (the lab) and likes to point to the snake (who finally ate after a month! - don't worry, he stays in his aquarium always!) The cats, tortoise, crab, fish and frogs come home at the end of the month.
We had blood drawn yesterday - only got enough out of two arms for 3 out of 5 tests they want to do. Today's adventure in stool sample collecting was a life lesson! REALLY glad I have tile floors!
Craig has not taken promised pictures yet, we will try to get some of Sarah with the dog, soon.
Mikel
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
We Are Back
Many apologies for the long lag between posts. Poor Mikel caught a nasty sinus infection a few days before leaving China and it has only gotten worse. Therefore, the new dad has had extra Sarah duty and keyboard buttons are hard for her to ignore. Poor excuse, but I'm sticking with it.
We left Guangzhou at 6:30 a.m. on the 15th and arrived at DFW at 6:00 p.m. the same day. Considering that we crossed the international time line, it was a long day. We had a 40 minute flight from Guangzhou to Hong Kong, which was a breeze. I swear the walk to the gate at the Hong Kong airport was longer, as the gate was at the very end of the terminal.
We caught a little luck on our flight to LA. There were a few vacant seats on the flight and the stewardess asked the gentleman who had the window seat if he would mind moving so we could have a seat for Sarah. THAT WAS GREAT! We put Sarah in the seat between us and she played with her stacking cups, took a couple naps and flirted with some of the passengers. We were near the facilities, so many people chatted with Sarah as they waited their turn.
Upon arrival, we had to sprint to the next terminal to catch our flight to LA. Only had a few minutes to spare but we made it.
Upon our arrival at DFW, we had a nice crowd of well-wishers.
The new grandma is holding the sign and the new grandpa is at the far right (in the picture and politically). Thanks Espo for taking the picture.
After taking about 400 to 500 pictures in China we have yet to take a picture of Sarah since she has been home. I will resolve this later today.
We left Guangzhou at 6:30 a.m. on the 15th and arrived at DFW at 6:00 p.m. the same day. Considering that we crossed the international time line, it was a long day. We had a 40 minute flight from Guangzhou to Hong Kong, which was a breeze. I swear the walk to the gate at the Hong Kong airport was longer, as the gate was at the very end of the terminal.
We caught a little luck on our flight to LA. There were a few vacant seats on the flight and the stewardess asked the gentleman who had the window seat if he would mind moving so we could have a seat for Sarah. THAT WAS GREAT! We put Sarah in the seat between us and she played with her stacking cups, took a couple naps and flirted with some of the passengers. We were near the facilities, so many people chatted with Sarah as they waited their turn.
Upon arrival, we had to sprint to the next terminal to catch our flight to LA. Only had a few minutes to spare but we made it.
Upon our arrival at DFW, we had a nice crowd of well-wishers.
The new grandma is holding the sign and the new grandpa is at the far right (in the picture and politically). Thanks Espo for taking the picture.
After taking about 400 to 500 pictures in China we have yet to take a picture of Sarah since she has been home. I will resolve this later today.
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Zai Jian
This will be our last post from China.
Today revolved around our appointment at the U.S. Consulate downtown. The appointment was at 2:45. We were not allowed to bring water or electronics with us, so there will be no pictures on this blog of a thirsty, newly minted citizen of the U.S. of A (that would be Sarah for all those who received their education at UT). Actually, Sarah will not be a citizen until she passes through customs in Los Angeles.
This morning we ventured off Shamain Island to a very Chinese market. This market is not for the faint of heart. Below, Mikel is in front of dried centipedes, snake skins and turtle shells.
Below, the lovely Miss Sarah is modeling beside dried snakes and fungi. All this can be yours - if the price is right.
Here is a view of of one of the streets within the market area. Wow, the sights, sounds and smells. That's Chuck Connor in the white T, who also got billing in our last blog entry, enjoying the market. Craig and Chuck, along with fellow dad John ventured through the market yesterday in search of the subway station and came across gutted goats hanging from poles. Therefore, we call this market the Gutted Goat Market.
Tonight, after raising our right hand and swearing we supplied truthful information, we again had dinner at Cow and Bridge with a few of the other families in our group.
Today revolved around our appointment at the U.S. Consulate downtown. The appointment was at 2:45. We were not allowed to bring water or electronics with us, so there will be no pictures on this blog of a thirsty, newly minted citizen of the U.S. of A (that would be Sarah for all those who received their education at UT). Actually, Sarah will not be a citizen until she passes through customs in Los Angeles.
This morning we ventured off Shamain Island to a very Chinese market. This market is not for the faint of heart. Below, Mikel is in front of dried centipedes, snake skins and turtle shells.
Below, the lovely Miss Sarah is modeling beside dried snakes and fungi. All this can be yours - if the price is right.
Here is a view of of one of the streets within the market area. Wow, the sights, sounds and smells. That's Chuck Connor in the white T, who also got billing in our last blog entry, enjoying the market. Craig and Chuck, along with fellow dad John ventured through the market yesterday in search of the subway station and came across gutted goats hanging from poles. Therefore, we call this market the Gutted Goat Market.
Tonight, after raising our right hand and swearing we supplied truthful information, we again had dinner at Cow and Bridge with a few of the other families in our group.
Bye from China, I can't write anymore because a certain somebody keeps wanting in daddy's lap to play with the computer. See ya on the other side of the world.
Craig, Mikel and Sarah hope you enjoyed reading our blog and we really do appreciate all the wonderful comments left by those who followed on our journey. We may check comments in the morning if we are not in a panic to get out. We leave the White Swan Hotel at 6:30 a.m.
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Lap Dance
Today was mostly a free day for us. We enjoyed a late breakfast at the first floor buffet next to the two story waterfall and huge koi pond.
Craig stayed in the room from 10 - noon waiting to see if Rui had any questions or concerns with our paper work. She was at the American Consulate getting all our stuff ready for our appointment tomorrow at 2:45. There were none, so Craig had a fun time bonding with baby Sarah in the hotel room.
What did Mikel do all this time? SHOP of course! She met Meg and Patti at the boutique just outside the White Swan hotel after she dropped off a last load of laundry at the Ladybug Corner just across the street from the hotel. This shop came highly recommended by families who had been here before. Most shops here do laundry and it comes back in cute clear packages perfect for packing. The Ladybug corner has a nice selection of clothes and shoes as well as strollers to 'rent' for free (most shops have strollers to borrow, too) If you do use Ladybug Corner ask for the VIP card that gives you an additional discount on laundry and all other purchases.
A word regarding the famous 'squeaky' shoes - they are not sized the same every where! Some come in sizes from 13 to 18, others are marked 140/23 or some other combination, still others have different markings. It was very confusing trying to find some sort of common element! Bring your baby with you to try them on! Most stores are happy to exchange, but you end up buying even more stuff!
This place also had a nice selection of baby shoes and tights. And for those of you planning on coming to China at any time of the year - bring tights! The old lady ankle police will come after you in any city if they think your baby's hands or legs get cold. So we have given up with socks (unless they are over the knee) and gone with tights.
For lunch Craig, Sarah and Mikel went for a stroll with Meg and her son Alex to Blenz Coffee (also highly recommended, it is just down the way from Starbucks - did Craig mention there is a Starbucks INSIDE the Forbidden City? Yes, we have photos!) The above photo is of Sarah boogieing to Shania Twain on daddy's lap. She is really turning on the cute factor! A couple of students on a field trip from Germany kept offering her their chocolate wafer candy!
Mikel has to give big props to the doctor and nurse at the White Swan Hotel. Baby Sarah is fine other than a few patches of dry skin and some monster-sized Mongolian spots. Mikel, on the other hand, has had too much smog in the past two weeks and has come down with a nasty sinus infection! Good thing we brought most of our medicine cabinet!
Anyway, at 7 PM yesterday she went to the 3rd floor clinic and rang the bell. There was no one there besides the nurse and doctor. Mikel sat down next to the doc, a few questions were asked and a temperature taken (under the arm) as well and a nose and throat inspection (never had that nose flashlight thingy shoved up so far - ouch!) The friendly, elderly Chinese doctor gave Mikel some antiboitics - all in under 15 minutes and for 150 Yuan (less than $20.00 USD!) They were both very caring and nice, too!
Another tip for those traveling here soon - most of the shops have a corner packed with medicines donated by families. They are in their original packages, in ENGLISH, both OTC and Rx, and treat most anything from lice to scabies to who knows what.
Tonights dinner was Thai. It is call the "Cow and Bridge" and was probably the best food we've eaten in Guangzhou. Steer clear of some of the crazy seafood dishes (no, we've not tried fish head soup or anything else many American's deem 'crazy') but the vegetables were superb (not had much greenery this trip) and Mikel enjoyed the Patai and Craig the vegi spring rolls. Other families orders delicious, spicy dishes that Craig enjoyed sampling. We ordered Sarah the usual chichen congi and some weird-looking apple juice (looked more like Guinness Stout)
Not many pictures taken today, but tomorrow we plan to explore what Craig calls the 'gutted goat market' so there should be lots of photo ops!
Craig stayed in the room from 10 - noon waiting to see if Rui had any questions or concerns with our paper work. She was at the American Consulate getting all our stuff ready for our appointment tomorrow at 2:45. There were none, so Craig had a fun time bonding with baby Sarah in the hotel room.
What did Mikel do all this time? SHOP of course! She met Meg and Patti at the boutique just outside the White Swan hotel after she dropped off a last load of laundry at the Ladybug Corner just across the street from the hotel. This shop came highly recommended by families who had been here before. Most shops here do laundry and it comes back in cute clear packages perfect for packing. The Ladybug corner has a nice selection of clothes and shoes as well as strollers to 'rent' for free (most shops have strollers to borrow, too) If you do use Ladybug Corner ask for the VIP card that gives you an additional discount on laundry and all other purchases.
A word regarding the famous 'squeaky' shoes - they are not sized the same every where! Some come in sizes from 13 to 18, others are marked 140/23 or some other combination, still others have different markings. It was very confusing trying to find some sort of common element! Bring your baby with you to try them on! Most stores are happy to exchange, but you end up buying even more stuff!
This place also had a nice selection of baby shoes and tights. And for those of you planning on coming to China at any time of the year - bring tights! The old lady ankle police will come after you in any city if they think your baby's hands or legs get cold. So we have given up with socks (unless they are over the knee) and gone with tights.
For lunch Craig, Sarah and Mikel went for a stroll with Meg and her son Alex to Blenz Coffee (also highly recommended, it is just down the way from Starbucks - did Craig mention there is a Starbucks INSIDE the Forbidden City? Yes, we have photos!) The above photo is of Sarah boogieing to Shania Twain on daddy's lap. She is really turning on the cute factor! A couple of students on a field trip from Germany kept offering her their chocolate wafer candy!
Mikel has to give big props to the doctor and nurse at the White Swan Hotel. Baby Sarah is fine other than a few patches of dry skin and some monster-sized Mongolian spots. Mikel, on the other hand, has had too much smog in the past two weeks and has come down with a nasty sinus infection! Good thing we brought most of our medicine cabinet!
Anyway, at 7 PM yesterday she went to the 3rd floor clinic and rang the bell. There was no one there besides the nurse and doctor. Mikel sat down next to the doc, a few questions were asked and a temperature taken (under the arm) as well and a nose and throat inspection (never had that nose flashlight thingy shoved up so far - ouch!) The friendly, elderly Chinese doctor gave Mikel some antiboitics - all in under 15 minutes and for 150 Yuan (less than $20.00 USD!) They were both very caring and nice, too!
Another tip for those traveling here soon - most of the shops have a corner packed with medicines donated by families. They are in their original packages, in ENGLISH, both OTC and Rx, and treat most anything from lice to scabies to who knows what.
Tonights dinner was Thai. It is call the "Cow and Bridge" and was probably the best food we've eaten in Guangzhou. Steer clear of some of the crazy seafood dishes (no, we've not tried fish head soup or anything else many American's deem 'crazy') but the vegetables were superb (not had much greenery this trip) and Mikel enjoyed the Patai and Craig the vegi spring rolls. Other families orders delicious, spicy dishes that Craig enjoyed sampling. We ordered Sarah the usual chichen congi and some weird-looking apple juice (looked more like Guinness Stout)
Not many pictures taken today, but tomorrow we plan to explore what Craig calls the 'gutted goat market' so there should be lots of photo ops!
Monday, March 12, 2007
Herding Cats
Those in the adoption community are familiar with the tradition of the Red Couch Photo. For those out of the know, the White Swan Hotel has a couple of red couches that every adoption group meets at to have a group photo with the kids. The picture below only shows four of the seven girls in our group, as we were never able to get all of the children on the couch together without a couple of babies having fits. Sarah was a real trooper through it all; though the thumb sucking is not very photogenic.
The gathering also included group photos and pictures of the girls with their mothers. Afterwards, Mikel and Sarah donned their new silk duds for the camera.
Later the families met for a last dinner together at Lucy's, the 'American' restaurant near our hotel. If this restaurant opened in Dallas, it would fail in days, but it does a good business here. As Mikel and Craig were eating their grilled cheese sandwiches, Sarah picked up french fries and started feeding her parents. Earlier in the day, as Craig was dressing to go out, Sarah brought him a shoe and his belt. What a sweet young lady she is becoming. The picture below is not the best of Mikel, but the aim is to get good pictures of Sarah, since we all know what Mikel looks like. Sarah doesn't like ketchup, but enjoyed dipping the fries for mommy. Is she wanted a bite, she would eat from the end without the ketchup and turn the fry around for mommy.
Sarah is just a darling baby, but as she gets comfortable with her parents, she is now starting to test boundaries. Where four days ago she was poker face, now she is at times becomes Little Miss Demanding. She gets very anxious for her formula in the morning and evening. This evening, as Craig waited for the formula to cool down, Sarah lost patience and had a small fit. She got a bit more obstinate later in the evening and was put to bed early. She is starting to hear 'NO' and 'BOO' (Chinese for 'no') a bit more often. 
The gathering also included group photos and pictures of the girls with their mothers. Afterwards, Mikel and Sarah donned their new silk duds for the camera.
Later the families met for a last dinner together at Lucy's, the 'American' restaurant near our hotel. If this restaurant opened in Dallas, it would fail in days, but it does a good business here. As Mikel and Craig were eating their grilled cheese sandwiches, Sarah picked up french fries and started feeding her parents. Earlier in the day, as Craig was dressing to go out, Sarah brought him a shoe and his belt. What a sweet young lady she is becoming. The picture below is not the best of Mikel, but the aim is to get good pictures of Sarah, since we all know what Mikel looks like. Sarah doesn't like ketchup, but enjoyed dipping the fries for mommy. Is she wanted a bite, she would eat from the end without the ketchup and turn the fry around for mommy.
Sarah is just a darling baby, but as she gets comfortable with her parents, she is now starting to test boundaries. Where four days ago she was poker face, now she is at times becomes Little Miss Demanding. She gets very anxious for her formula in the morning and evening. This evening, as Craig waited for the formula to cool down, Sarah lost patience and had a small fit. She got a bit more obstinate later in the evening and was put to bed early. She is starting to hear 'NO' and 'BOO' (Chinese for 'no') a bit more often.
Earlier in the day, Craig and two fellow com padres, Chuck and John, decided to take the subway downtown. CITIC Plaza is home of the seventh tallest building in the world. The building does not have an observation deck so we just jumped into an elevator hoping to get some type of view. A lobby on the 48 floor allowed us some nice views; however, the day was so overcast that visibility was only a mile or two. The Guangzhou subways are very efficient and clean, making for a nice getaway for the guys. That's Craig with Chuck below.
Sunday, March 11, 2007
Poverty in Guangzhou
No sign of poverty on Saiman Island, just in Room 1134 of the White Swan Hotel. The folks at the currency exchange window know Mikel by name.
Sarah is really becoming a hoot. Below she is again upside down. She has a hair brush that she was coming daddy's hair with. She is talking more and loves to head butt daddy's belly.
As previously noted, we visited the Chen Family Temple today. Below is Craig and Sarah in front of one of the many statues within the complex. Sarah today learned to grab daddy's hands and have him twirl her in circles (I wish I could explain this better). For a 22 month old toddler, she just loves the rough stuff.
Sarah is really becoming a hoot. Below she is again upside down. She has a hair brush that she was coming daddy's hair with. She is talking more and loves to head butt daddy's belly.
As previously noted, we visited the Chen Family Temple today. Below is Craig and Sarah in front of one of the many statues within the complex. Sarah today learned to grab daddy's hands and have him twirl her in circles (I wish I could explain this better). For a 22 month old toddler, she just loves the rough stuff.
Shopping in Guangzhou
Ni Hao, Ya'll - Mikel here.
Another day in beautiful and tranquil Guangzhou, AKA Canton, Ram city and others. Today we visited the Chen Family Temple and then visited a shopping area. I will let Craig fill you in with pictures and info about the former, but I thought I'd chat about the later.
It is about 2:20 PM on Sunday, March 11. Sarah conked out on the bus ride back to hotel at 12:30 so she'll be very hungry when she wakes later. Craig has gone with a few of the other families (mostly the men - while the women watch the kids - which is turn about since I've left Craig with nap duty to shop and run errands the past few days) to visit an electronics super mega store. We have most of the electronics we 'need' but you never know! I hope he will find a camera do-dad or something since the only things we've bought for him on this trip are some Kit Kat bars, a slurpee and an ice cream or two!
I have been trying to hold back my real shopping frenzy until now. Craig will disagree but oh well. I bought Sarah a silk outfit from the Hunan Embroidery Museum - the only one since I'm not happy with the quality of the silk outfits I've seen so far. She also has a silk baby blanket, a 'chop' engraved with her American (Sarah) and Chinese (FuYe) names, shoes (he he!) a couple of cotton Chinese outfits, a stroller and a few other do-dads.
Today we visited a Jade Market. It was okay. I did get a couple of things for Sarah's "16" gifts (one gift for each of the next 16 birthdays - I may spread the gifts out and give them for 'big' birthdays)
We also received her immunization records today. Tomorrow we will take the 'red couch' picture with all the babies, and have a group dinner at Lucy's (quasi American Food - not bad!) On Tuesday we will wait by the phone from 10 to noon while Rui is at the Consulate making all the final arrangements (just in case she has a question for us or we need to fill out more forms) and the Wednesday is our last round of appointments!
Oops! Sarah is awake! Bye for now! Mikel
Another day in beautiful and tranquil Guangzhou, AKA Canton, Ram city and others. Today we visited the Chen Family Temple and then visited a shopping area. I will let Craig fill you in with pictures and info about the former, but I thought I'd chat about the later.
It is about 2:20 PM on Sunday, March 11. Sarah conked out on the bus ride back to hotel at 12:30 so she'll be very hungry when she wakes later. Craig has gone with a few of the other families (mostly the men - while the women watch the kids - which is turn about since I've left Craig with nap duty to shop and run errands the past few days) to visit an electronics super mega store. We have most of the electronics we 'need' but you never know! I hope he will find a camera do-dad or something since the only things we've bought for him on this trip are some Kit Kat bars, a slurpee and an ice cream or two!
I have been trying to hold back my real shopping frenzy until now. Craig will disagree but oh well. I bought Sarah a silk outfit from the Hunan Embroidery Museum - the only one since I'm not happy with the quality of the silk outfits I've seen so far. She also has a silk baby blanket, a 'chop' engraved with her American (Sarah) and Chinese (FuYe) names, shoes (he he!) a couple of cotton Chinese outfits, a stroller and a few other do-dads.
Today we visited a Jade Market. It was okay. I did get a couple of things for Sarah's "16" gifts (one gift for each of the next 16 birthdays - I may spread the gifts out and give them for 'big' birthdays)
We also received her immunization records today. Tomorrow we will take the 'red couch' picture with all the babies, and have a group dinner at Lucy's (quasi American Food - not bad!) On Tuesday we will wait by the phone from 10 to noon while Rui is at the Consulate making all the final arrangements (just in case she has a question for us or we need to fill out more forms) and the Wednesday is our last round of appointments!
Oops! Sarah is awake! Bye for now! Mikel
Friday, March 09, 2007
The Acrobat
The trip from from Changsha to Guangzhou consisted of a 20 minute drive to the Changsha Airport, about an hour in the Changsha Airport, a one hour and ten minute flight, about 45 minutes in the Guangzhou airport and a 45 minute drive to the White Swan Hotel. And Sarah was full bore almost the whole trip.
Sarah did not come out of her shell yesterday, she exploded. Sarah was acting like she drank a couple Red Bulls or a six pack of Mountain Dew. She was full tilt until the bus ride to the hotel, around 10:00 p.m. when she finally crashed. She is not exactly Chatty Kathy yet, but she is making numerous sounds. She just couldn't stay still and was smiling most of the time - unless you break out a camera to prove it to the world, then she gets closed mouth. At the Changsha Airport she walked Mikel silly and learned how to slide on the tile floor. Falling is not a problem, she just gets up to try again. On the plane, as Craig held her, she was up, down, sideways, upside down (her favorite position) and all over the place. Many of the folks in our travel group were amazed at Sarah's coming out display. Below is Mikel in the lobby of the White Swan, about 10:30 p.m., waiting for Craig to secure the room keys so we can all go to bed. Sarah is finally still.
Today we walked from the White Swan Hotel to the building where all adopted babies receive a physical examination. Sarah enjoyed the ride in the stroller over and was in good spirits. The quiet streets of Guangzhou are a welcomed change from the hustle and bustle of Changsha. The arthitecture and gardens are a delight. Many in our group are happy that a Starbucks is only a block from the hotel. Below is Mikel and Sarah to the left, our guide Rui in the middle and the German's (their name, not nationality) to the right.
There were dozens of families at the physical examinatoin building with their new children, many of which were crying. Sarah is always very aware of her surroundings, and the 'bad vibe' of all the crying babies had to alert her that this is not a happy place. Her first exam, measuring of head diameter and outward exam of body went well. The second station was weighing and measuring. When Mikel handed Sarah to the attendant, Sarah started wailing, and Mikel almost started too. The third and final station was ears and throat, which Sarah did fairly well at, though she did not want to open her mouth for the tongue depressor. Below, Sarah is on the scale.
With the exam over, we now have the rest of the day free. On the way back to the hotel, Mikel hit many of the shops that cater to tourists. All of the attendants tell us we have the prettiest baby, which they are correct, and try to sell us their wares. Mikel has already purchased two more pair of squeeky shoes and I think placed an order for silk clothes for Sarah.
Many of the families we know who have adopted from China tell us that the child placed with them is the perfect match. I just want to know how the Chinese knew to match us with a kid that loves rough-housing. Sarah was practically wrestling Craig in the bed, pinning him down with her massive 21 pounds of might. Below is a toddler who just loves to be upside down and is no sissy-girl.
Sarah did not come out of her shell yesterday, she exploded. Sarah was acting like she drank a couple Red Bulls or a six pack of Mountain Dew. She was full tilt until the bus ride to the hotel, around 10:00 p.m. when she finally crashed. She is not exactly Chatty Kathy yet, but she is making numerous sounds. She just couldn't stay still and was smiling most of the time - unless you break out a camera to prove it to the world, then she gets closed mouth. At the Changsha Airport she walked Mikel silly and learned how to slide on the tile floor. Falling is not a problem, she just gets up to try again. On the plane, as Craig held her, she was up, down, sideways, upside down (her favorite position) and all over the place. Many of the folks in our travel group were amazed at Sarah's coming out display. Below is Mikel in the lobby of the White Swan, about 10:30 p.m., waiting for Craig to secure the room keys so we can all go to bed. Sarah is finally still.
Today we walked from the White Swan Hotel to the building where all adopted babies receive a physical examination. Sarah enjoyed the ride in the stroller over and was in good spirits. The quiet streets of Guangzhou are a welcomed change from the hustle and bustle of Changsha. The arthitecture and gardens are a delight. Many in our group are happy that a Starbucks is only a block from the hotel. Below is Mikel and Sarah to the left, our guide Rui in the middle and the German's (their name, not nationality) to the right.
There were dozens of families at the physical examinatoin building with their new children, many of which were crying. Sarah is always very aware of her surroundings, and the 'bad vibe' of all the crying babies had to alert her that this is not a happy place. Her first exam, measuring of head diameter and outward exam of body went well. The second station was weighing and measuring. When Mikel handed Sarah to the attendant, Sarah started wailing, and Mikel almost started too. The third and final station was ears and throat, which Sarah did fairly well at, though she did not want to open her mouth for the tongue depressor. Below, Sarah is on the scale.
With the exam over, we now have the rest of the day free. On the way back to the hotel, Mikel hit many of the shops that cater to tourists. All of the attendants tell us we have the prettiest baby, which they are correct, and try to sell us their wares. Mikel has already purchased two more pair of squeeky shoes and I think placed an order for silk clothes for Sarah.
Many of the families we know who have adopted from China tell us that the child placed with them is the perfect match. I just want to know how the Chinese knew to match us with a kid that loves rough-housing. Sarah was practically wrestling Craig in the bed, pinning him down with her massive 21 pounds of might. Below is a toddler who just loves to be upside down and is no sissy-girl.
Tonight, Mikel is having a hamburger for dinner. She is quite excited.
Thursday, March 08, 2007
She Speaks
Today, Friday the 9th, is a travel day. We leave later this evening for Guangzhou, where the American Consulate is. We will stay at the White Swan Hotel on Shamain Island for six nights.
We have enjoyed our time in Changsha, but poor Mikel is ready for a dinner that isn't so spicy.
Below is a picture of our travel group in Tian'an men Square. There are seven couples, five of which are first time parents. Just a great group of folks.
Never can have enough pictures of a cute girl in the tub. Although it might not be apparent, Sarah does enjoy a bath. Even when mommy goofs with her hair.
The other day at the park, it was pretty chilly and we did not bring a pair of gloves for poor Sarah (even though Anna and Molly made a special trip to our house the day we were to leave and brought us a pair! Oops!) Another mommy offered up a pair, but as you can see, they were a bit big on her. (She still has the candy in her hand given to her by the nice elderly lady! :-) )
Sarah has made nary a peep since her crying spell on Gotcha Day. But yesterday at dinner, while Mikel was holding her nose in the restaurant bathroom, Sarah uttered her first words. Since then she has occasionally muttered and each hour babbles just a little bit more.
We have enjoyed our time in Changsha, but poor Mikel is ready for a dinner that isn't so spicy.
Below is a picture of our travel group in Tian'an men Square. There are seven couples, five of which are first time parents. Just a great group of folks.
Never can have enough pictures of a cute girl in the tub. Although it might not be apparent, Sarah does enjoy a bath. Even when mommy goofs with her hair.
The other day at the park, it was pretty chilly and we did not bring a pair of gloves for poor Sarah (even though Anna and Molly made a special trip to our house the day we were to leave and brought us a pair! Oops!) Another mommy offered up a pair, but as you can see, they were a bit big on her. (She still has the candy in her hand given to her by the nice elderly lady! :-) )
Sarah has made nary a peep since her crying spell on Gotcha Day. But yesterday at dinner, while Mikel was holding her nose in the restaurant bathroom, Sarah uttered her first words. Since then she has occasionally muttered and each hour babbles just a little bit more.
Yesterday, March 8, was National Woman's Day in the Peoples Republic of China. Mikel and Rui celebrated by going to have a traditional foot massage. We walked a block or so from the hotel to a place Rui knows. There we enjoyed a private room with digital TV (watched an old Jet Li movie - hai YAH!) and 90 minutes of heaven.
First, we soaked our feet in bamboo buckets of steaming hot water with Chinese herbs and medicines (it looked like dirty water but smelled wonderful!) While we did this for about 15-20 minutes a masseur rubbed and pounded our necks shoulders and backs. We were fully clothed except for our feet. Wherever the masseur worked (except our feet), he placed what looked like a flour sack dish cloth and rubbed on top of it.
For the second part we lay back on divans, sipped large mugs of hot green tea (white-gloved smartly dressed gentlemen came in to make sure we had plenty of refills) while they worked on our feet for about 20 minutes each foot. Then they massaged each leg for about 10 minutes each.
The last part we laid flat on our stomachs for a back and neck rub. Ahhhhhhhhhh! All this for 50 yuan plus a 20 yuan tip. Yes, that is less than $10.00! Mikel is DEFINITELY going again when she gets to Guangzhou!
Believe it or not, for Mikel, the best part was when she returned to hotel to find out that when Sarah awoke from her nap, she cried missing her mommy! Daddy had to distract her until mommy returned!
Typically, we would have lunch in one of the hotel restaurants. The last few days we had a sweet gal named Sophie wait on us. Her English was not very good, but considerably superior to our Chinese. She is a trainee and worked hard to please us. Besides, Craig always likes having cute waitresses serve him.
We are blogging as of the 8th of March; however, the picture below is from bath time the previous evening. Sarah very much enjoys her baths and last night we let her have extra play time in the water. After taking pictures of Sarah, we show them to her on the camera LCD for her approval.
Still stingy with the smile. During play time in the hallway at the hotel, Sarah would turn her face away from us when she smiled as to not give us the satisfaction. Craig showed her how to kick a beach ball, which was worth many a turned head and hidden smile. The hallway has mirrors, so we can see her from other angles. Speaking of mirrors, little miss vanity loves to look at herself in the mirror.
Today we took a tour of the Yue Lu Academy here in Changsha. It is a university that has been in the same location for over 1,500 years. It was an interesting walking tour, but not like walking UCLA and checking out the co-eds.
Maybe the best part of the Yue Lu Academy was all the steps. Sarah was very proud of herself as she ventured up and down many flights of stairs and some tall thresholds. Another day with squeeky shoes also helped entertain her.
Sarah and Mikel were of more interest to the Chinese tourists than the academy grounds. Many times they were stopped for pictures. Was it the uniqueness of a white American with a Chinese baby, or was it just Mikel's cheeks and eyes? Sarah hardly batted an eye as she was touched, adjusted, and handled by many Chinese ladies - some who gently scolded us for not covering her up enough. For future travelers/adopters, if it is the slightest bit cold, get some 80's style leg warmers, because it is hard to keep those ankles covered. And don't forget the gloves, the old ladies will grab the kid's hands to see if they are cold.
At the front of the grounds was a large statue of Chairman Mao. Mao is from Hunan Province and his face is everywhere. Yes, we have a thumb-sucker on our hands. We will deal with that later.
Still stingy with the smile. During play time in the hallway at the hotel, Sarah would turn her face away from us when she smiled as to not give us the satisfaction. Craig showed her how to kick a beach ball, which was worth many a turned head and hidden smile. The hallway has mirrors, so we can see her from other angles. Speaking of mirrors, little miss vanity loves to look at herself in the mirror.
Today we took a tour of the Yue Lu Academy here in Changsha. It is a university that has been in the same location for over 1,500 years. It was an interesting walking tour, but not like walking UCLA and checking out the co-eds.
Maybe the best part of the Yue Lu Academy was all the steps. Sarah was very proud of herself as she ventured up and down many flights of stairs and some tall thresholds. Another day with squeeky shoes also helped entertain her.
Sarah and Mikel were of more interest to the Chinese tourists than the academy grounds. Many times they were stopped for pictures. Was it the uniqueness of a white American with a Chinese baby, or was it just Mikel's cheeks and eyes? Sarah hardly batted an eye as she was touched, adjusted, and handled by many Chinese ladies - some who gently scolded us for not covering her up enough. For future travelers/adopters, if it is the slightest bit cold, get some 80's style leg warmers, because it is hard to keep those ankles covered. And don't forget the gloves, the old ladies will grab the kid's hands to see if they are cold.
At the front of the grounds was a large statue of Chairman Mao. Mao is from Hunan Province and his face is everywhere. Yes, we have a thumb-sucker on our hands. We will deal with that later.
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
Still Little Miss Serious
The big tease. Every time you think she is going to smile, she just kinda smirks. Notice the candy in her hand? An elderly Chinese lady gave it to her.
Today, March 7 for those wondering, included a stop at Tianxing Park and the Hunan Embroidery Museum of China (Yawn!). As we dressed Sarah for her day, Mikel choose a new pair of shoes for Sarah to wear - squeeky shoes. Once Sarah put foot to ground and heard the squeek, fireworks went off in her head. The world's greatest invention, no doubt. For those out of the know, squeeky shoes, which are typical in China, do just as you would figure, they squeek as the child walks. Sarah was quite delighted and we walked her to breakfast in them and turned a lot of heads. One couple who did not purchase a pair yesterday at Wal-Mart plans to get a cab back to Wall-Mart, they were so impressed.
Above, Mikel and Sarah in Tianxing Park. Please note the men playing chess and ladies doing Tai Chi to Mikel's left. There is an entrace fee for the park; however, folks 60 and over are admitted free.
Craig, Sarah and Mikel in Tianxing Park. It was a cool, crisp day, weather wise.
At the padoda in Tianxing Park. See how the bottom lip curls on Sarah. That is our warning that she is not crazy about her present state. She is still holding the candy.
At the Hunan Embroidery Museum of China, Mikel is trying on a silk outfit for Sarah. I don't recall were the museum part of the complex was, just the stuff for sale.
Today, March 7 for those wondering, included a stop at Tianxing Park and the Hunan Embroidery Museum of China (Yawn!). As we dressed Sarah for her day, Mikel choose a new pair of shoes for Sarah to wear - squeeky shoes. Once Sarah put foot to ground and heard the squeek, fireworks went off in her head. The world's greatest invention, no doubt. For those out of the know, squeeky shoes, which are typical in China, do just as you would figure, they squeek as the child walks. Sarah was quite delighted and we walked her to breakfast in them and turned a lot of heads. One couple who did not purchase a pair yesterday at Wal-Mart plans to get a cab back to Wall-Mart, they were so impressed.
Above, Mikel and Sarah in Tianxing Park. Please note the men playing chess and ladies doing Tai Chi to Mikel's left. There is an entrace fee for the park; however, folks 60 and over are admitted free.
Craig, Sarah and Mikel in Tianxing Park. It was a cool, crisp day, weather wise.
At the padoda in Tianxing Park. See how the bottom lip curls on Sarah. That is our warning that she is not crazy about her present state. She is still holding the candy.
At the Hunan Embroidery Museum of China, Mikel is trying on a silk outfit for Sarah. I don't recall were the museum part of the complex was, just the stuff for sale.
After we returned from our outing, we had lunch at the hotel and Sarah shared our fried rice and had some congi (kinda like rice oatmeal). She just awoke from her nap and we must go. Pizza tonight, which will make Mikel happy as the Hunan food is quite spicy and she longs for Americana.
Monday, March 05, 2007
Poker Face
All went according to plan upon our return to the Adoption Adminstrative & Service Center the same afternoon as meeting Sarah in the morning. We had to fill out some paper work and pledge never to abandon Sarah or mistreat her (i.e. don't let her become a UT fan). Below is a picture of our Great Wall China Adoption guide, Rui (pronounced Ray). She holds our hands at ever step of the process. She even went out of her way to get us some fomula and rice cereal last night. I apologize to Ray for the poor picture of her. She is a lovely young lady.
Today we ventured out to Wal-Mart. It was above a mall-like congregation of shops. It was pretty cold outside, so Mikel bundled up Sarah in several layers including the Dora the Explorer outfit and groovy headgear. We have already had an elderly Chinese lady come over and adjust Sarah's clothes as we did a poor job of covering her ankles. The Wal-Mart was similar to a US Wal-Mart except for the live frogs, eels, turtles and such in the fish market. You can buy half of a dried pig face, too. Mikel bought Emelda, er Sarah, six pairs of shoes today. She was wearing the shoes we got her in, which were too small for her, two different sizes and not so attractive. Notice Sarah still has her ducky.
Sarah has a poker face. She hasn't cried since Gotcha and is almost expressionless. That is until daddy got her in the shopping cart at Wal-Mart and started spinning the cart in circles. She almost cracked a smile. About the only way to get her to change her expression is to spin her or hoist her up and let her pretend to fly.
Today we ventured out to Wal-Mart. It was above a mall-like congregation of shops. It was pretty cold outside, so Mikel bundled up Sarah in several layers including the Dora the Explorer outfit and groovy headgear. We have already had an elderly Chinese lady come over and adjust Sarah's clothes as we did a poor job of covering her ankles. The Wal-Mart was similar to a US Wal-Mart except for the live frogs, eels, turtles and such in the fish market. You can buy half of a dried pig face, too. Mikel bought Emelda, er Sarah, six pairs of shoes today. She was wearing the shoes we got her in, which were too small for her, two different sizes and not so attractive. Notice Sarah still has her ducky.
Sarah has a poker face. She hasn't cried since Gotcha and is almost expressionless. That is until daddy got her in the shopping cart at Wal-Mart and started spinning the cart in circles. She almost cracked a smile. About the only way to get her to change her expression is to spin her or hoist her up and let her pretend to fly.
Sunday, March 04, 2007
We Have Liftoff
Wow, these Black Pepper Rib Eye Steak Flavor chips are really good. We bought them at the local market, which was a zoo. Oh, that's right, you'll want to know about THE BABY!
At roughly 10:00 a.m. this morning we had an appointment at the Adoption Adminstration & Service Center to meet our new daughter. We were the second family of the seven families on our group to be called up to get our girl. The picture below is the very first picture we took of Sarah after our guide told us which one she was. This was prior to being united with her. We did not recognize her because they gave her a bad haircut. The gentleman to the left is the director of the orphanage Sarah came from.
As our name was called, we presented our passports and after the ok signal, we were handed Sarah. Mikel has Sarah's Tigger doll in her hand.
Sarah had been having a good time with her nannies prior to handoff. Afterwards, not so good. Below she is not digging Craig all that much.
After all the families had their babies, we were shuffled out as the next group was anxious to get their new daughters. By the time we got outside, Sarah had stopped crying and was kinda dazed. That is the Connor family from Atlanta in the picture below with their new daughter. Sarah was quiet on the bus ride back to the hotel - much of the time looking out the window.
The great equalizer - Cheerios. Sarah loves those Cheerios. She usually knew were the little bag of Cheerios was and never said no to one. They were what made her stop crying after handoff and give us some eye contact.
Back in our hotel room, Sarah was presented with some stacking cups and later a ducky during her bath. After her bath Sarah got a new diapher and some fresh clothes. Not ten minutes after the new diaper, she produced the mother of all poops. "Wanna be parents Mikel and Craig? WELL TAKE THIS!"
As we write this post, Sarah is taking her first nap. So far, so good. She is an absolute doll! No smiles yet, though. When we get one, we will post it ASAP.
Daddy, ducky and Sarah.
At roughly 10:00 a.m. this morning we had an appointment at the Adoption Adminstration & Service Center to meet our new daughter. We were the second family of the seven families on our group to be called up to get our girl. The picture below is the very first picture we took of Sarah after our guide told us which one she was. This was prior to being united with her. We did not recognize her because they gave her a bad haircut. The gentleman to the left is the director of the orphanage Sarah came from.
As our name was called, we presented our passports and after the ok signal, we were handed Sarah. Mikel has Sarah's Tigger doll in her hand.
Sarah had been having a good time with her nannies prior to handoff. Afterwards, not so good. Below she is not digging Craig all that much.
After all the families had their babies, we were shuffled out as the next group was anxious to get their new daughters. By the time we got outside, Sarah had stopped crying and was kinda dazed. That is the Connor family from Atlanta in the picture below with their new daughter. Sarah was quiet on the bus ride back to the hotel - much of the time looking out the window.
The great equalizer - Cheerios. Sarah loves those Cheerios. She usually knew were the little bag of Cheerios was and never said no to one. They were what made her stop crying after handoff and give us some eye contact.
We'll include a picture of the myriad of clothes she was wearing in another post.
Back in our hotel room, Sarah was presented with some stacking cups and later a ducky during her bath. After her bath Sarah got a new diapher and some fresh clothes. Not ten minutes after the new diaper, she produced the mother of all poops. "Wanna be parents Mikel and Craig? WELL TAKE THIS!"
As we write this post, Sarah is taking her first nap. So far, so good. She is an absolute doll! No smiles yet, though. When we get one, we will post it ASAP.
Daddy, ducky and Sarah.
We Are In Countdown
After a day of rain in Beijing, we awoke to snow. So much snow that our 7:30 a.m. flight to Changsha was delayed over an hour as the plane's wings needed de-icing. A few hours later we were walking through the streets of Changsha in 60 degree weather. Very nice. For a city we had ever heard of two months ago, this is a fairly large city. Below is a picture from our hotel room at the Dolton.
We have less than four hours until we meet the reason for our trip. The things that go through your mind leading up to this is exhausting. Kinda like those dreams in college about missing tests. - Craig
Last night was the lantern festival. Traditionally it is on the last day of the spring festival, the 15th day of the first month of the (Lunar) New Year (on the first full moon). From about 6:00 PM until 8 or 9 fire works boomed steadily all over the city. Our view from the 31st floor was spectacular! There were individuals setting off sparks on the streets as well as more professional shows from one end of our view to the next. I was very tired when our guide, Rui (Ray), explained the purpose of the fireworks, but it has something to do with scaring away evil spirits - going so far as to scare little children into staying awake so they will not be influenced by the ghosts.
All our rooms also have an open window. Thankfully the wind has carried most of the smog away (at least yesterday) and the breeze was pleasant. Some of our party were even poking their heads out almost getting popped by fireworks!
Dinner last night was traditional Hunan style. It was spicy to me, but I understand Rui ordered the mildest dishes. One pork and bamboo shoot dish reminded my of Cajun etoufe, while another dish served with scallops in the shell reminded me of Italian shimp scampi. One great dish was corn and pine nuts. For dessert we were served three different kinds of "sweet" dumplings.
Mikel
7:00 AM
March 5 (gotcha day!)
Saturday, March 03, 2007
Beijing Day 2 - Rain, Rain, Rain
Today we visited three of the most recognized places in Beijing. Unfortunately it rained all day. With the help of an umbrella, it wasn't that bad. From what we hear, it's better than a day in August in Beijing.
Mikel in Tian'men Square with the entrance to the Forbidden City in the background. Look hard and you can see the famous picture of Charmian Mao over the entrance.
Here we are in the Forbidden City. As you can see, it is quite slick on the old stone tiles.
If that was a Four Star restroom, I'd hate to see a two star. There was a waiting room in front of the restrooms, and those Chinese folks sure love to smoke in them and ruin the air quality.
Here Mikel enjoys the recent blooms in the garden within the Forbidden City.
At the Great Wall of China. See the watch tower in the background? We climbed to it, and then a little further. We weren't too proud of ourselves as a bunch of 60-something Germans passed us by.
We are off to Changsha tomorrow at dark-thirty. We are still on schedule to meet Sarah on Monday at 10:00 a.m.
Mikel in Tian'men Square with the entrance to the Forbidden City in the background. Look hard and you can see the famous picture of Charmian Mao over the entrance.
Here we are in the Forbidden City. As you can see, it is quite slick on the old stone tiles.
If that was a Four Star restroom, I'd hate to see a two star. There was a waiting room in front of the restrooms, and those Chinese folks sure love to smoke in them and ruin the air quality.
Here Mikel enjoys the recent blooms in the garden within the Forbidden City.
At the Great Wall of China. See the watch tower in the background? We climbed to it, and then a little further. We weren't too proud of ourselves as a bunch of 60-something Germans passed us by.We are off to Changsha tomorrow at dark-thirty. We are still on schedule to meet Sarah on Monday at 10:00 a.m.
Friday, March 02, 2007
Beijing Day 1 Oops
Sorry about the last post. The internet here in China is goofy and many of the commands are shown as 标题： instead of the true command. Therefore we sometimes push the wrong buttons. We will post more later today as the hotel is "broken off" internet most of the day.
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